I really, really like
giving affection & receiving it. getting lost in a new city. diving into waters in the off-season cold. feeling intimidated by somebody’s intelligence. feeling intimidated by somebody’s confidence. slipping into stilettos. kisses on my neck. words delivered boldly. hot summer afternoons hidden away in air-conditioned hotel suites. making people comfortable. leaving my comfort zone. combat boots matched with short sundresses. threesomes. moresomes. the sensation of snug cashmere sweaters tucked into high-waisted denim. fingers interlocking. being on my toes. peaty whiskies. having my gaze met a little too long. the smell of a wood fire in the snow at dawn. being surprised. exhaustion from outdoor activity. feeling fragile when pushing an enormous heavy door. crusty sea salt on sun-soaked skin. slurping oysters on mediterranean patios. oil massages. silent palo-santo-scented spaces. sore muscles. witty banter. perfect pens. lonesomeness. not knowing what’s next. well-tailored suits. the sensation of weight. the sensation in my body when accelerating fast cars. being barefoot. being extra on dance floors. lively dinners with too much wine and too much laughter. deep soaking tubs. organic scented candles. perfect silence. seeing glimpses of a person underneath their public persona. peeling off layers. parties of two.
Gifts are never expected.
And I mean that.
The most special things in life can’t be purchased anyway.*
However, a lot of them can!
Lucky for you who loves to spoil and me who loves to be spoiled.
*Except for time, time actually can be purchased and I am most fond of time. To gift time, scroll past the ‘things’.
Pretty Things
The easiest way to make a gift is through my wish tender, which I update regularly.
E-gift cards to Selfridges or for dance classes are another simple way to put a smile on my face.
If you prefer analogue gifting, following is a selection of particular items I currently lust after, which I update regularly. This also gives you an idea of my taste. If you can’t surprise me in person just ask for a mailing address, which is available to screened/known clients.
I wear shoes in a EU/IT 37
Clothes fit in a EU 36 / S
Lingerie measurements are 75A (34A) / Size S for bras, 36 / Size S for panties
(Fun fact: Bordelle lingerie suits me particularly well!
I appreciate beautiful things, but to me the most luxurious commodity will always be time and attention and the freedom to invest it however I like!
I am free spirit to the core.
And while money has a bad rep for being cold and impersonal it enables dreams and space to be creative like nothing else can, making it actually the most personal gifts of them all.
Experiences
Hotel suites I like to play and stay in, restaurants I’d like to try or go back to, events I would like to attend and experiences I’d love to make. Plus a comprehensive travel wishlist for short or long trips. This is also a great inspiration for our dates.
Dinner Reservations
Hotels
